cigarette burning in ashtray generation risk -

by:Xinglin     2019-09-16
Jason is a teenage smoker.He lives with his mother and two younger sisters.His mother is a nurse and often works late on weekends.At 16, Jason was tired of taking care of his sister's responsibility and they didn't listen to him anyway.
He wants to stay alone instead of being constantly bothered by his mother in cleaning, doing homework and everything else she can think.Jason has been home from school for three hours.The food for dinner is still on the table next to his book.
The girls are watching TV.
When he returned to the chair to relax and took out a pack of cigarettes from his pocket, his mother walked in and started with him."Jason, how do you smoke?We have talked about it many times before!You know you have a risk of lung cancer, heart disease, and swelling."None of Jason's friends have lung cancer, heart disease, or swelling.
He had heard the speech before and it didn't make much sense to him.He is not going to smoke forever.He transferred his mother and began to daydream.He took his backpack with his right hand and ripped the thin gold tear tape with his left hand.
The tape always falls off perfectly, always one.He left the cellophane at the bottom of the package because he liked the feeling on his fingers and every time he took out the package from his pocket, he liked to hear the soft crack crackling.His mother is talking to him again."Do you want to die from lung cancer?"Jason was immersed in the ceremony of opening the package.
He flipped the box with his thumb and pulled open the loose foil that covered the cigarette.There are two rows of Cork.Just waiting for him to pick out the smoke.His mother is continuing."Don't you know you're destroying your lungs?\ "Jason pulled a cigarette out of his bag and stuck it in his mouth when he closed the box.
When he put the cigarette back in his pocket, he let the cigarette hang between his lips.It feels good there.He knows he looks good.He reached out to his pocket and took the lighter.His mother's voice floated on and off;`...Kill more than 400,000 people every year..."The lighter is in Jason's right hand.The cigarette still hangs between his lips.
He lit the cigarette without holding it with his finger.Girls do that.He is very happy now.He really wants to smoke.He lit the lighter and the flame engulfed the end of the cigarette.He loves that.He likes it especially in the dark.The cigarette was lit.Tobacco crumpled evenly around the tip.He sucked deeply and put the lighter back in his pocket.
Ah, it's there now.
Sharp rasp on the soft tissue at the back of the throat.The smoke was like silk in his mouth.His lungs are full.A satisfactory breath now.He blew the smoke straight out and watched the smoke spin in the air."Jason, how can you ignore me when I try to protect you from danger and harm?"Jason is now waiting to bounce the ashes out.
He likes to watch them fall off the end of the cigarette cleanly.He dragged another long, satisfactory drag."Have you ever thought about what you did to your body by smoking?"Jason blocked her words and when he breathed in again he was immersed in a feeling of serenity.
Now he is almost at the end of the cigarette.Finish it with the last drag.The last chance to smoke for a while, so being with him must be a great opportunity.His mother's angry voice interrupted him, "What do you want to understand in any case?He finally replied, "Don't you know, Mom ?"?"Maybe you know Jason.
He may or may not live in your neighbor's house.He started smoking since he was a child, and up to now, his smoking habits are as complicated as any adult.What can Jason's mother (or you) do to convince him that he is too young to smoke?Or your child is more like fourteen.
year-old Amanda.
She will never shine in front of you, but after going out with her friends on the weekend, she goes home and under the fresh scent of perfume sprayed on her clothes, you find something else.You want to smell smoke around other kids who smoke, but you want to know....Wearing a bright pink sling top and worn-out skinny jeans, Amanda is talking to a mentor she likes and trusts: "There are things you don't want to tell your parents because you don't want to hurt them.
"You don't want them to be disappointed with you," she said .".Amanda twisted back and forth in her chair, mainly looking at the floor.When she looked up at the counselor, she leaned forward and frowned.
But your friends are really important to you.You want to try to fit into everyone's life, so sometimes you try to do what others are doing.I don\'t know.Sometimes it's hard to know what to do.\ "Like many other teenagers, Amanda also wanted to smoke a cigarette.
She was uncomfortable with the idea of cheating her parents, but she wanted to fit into a friend's life and didn't want to miss anything that might be interesting.Can you convince her not to smoke?Or maybe you don't have "Jason" or "Amanda" in your mind right now ".Maybe you smoke yourself like Martina's mother.
You know that smoking will attract pleasant aspects of teens (calming effects, everyday life, pleasant taste, comfort to do something with your hands in addition to eating), and so on.) But you also know the negative side (the smell that pervades everything, the feeling of doing something that you don't have easy control of, and the long termTerms about health), you don't want your teens to follow in your footsteps.How do you convince your child to "do as I say, not as I do "?Martina is only twelve years old and is free and easy to answer questions.
Her young face was framed by elastic curls and she seemed energetic.The summer sun whitened her hair with a hint of freckles on her face."My mom smokes, but she always tells me and my sister, 'Don't smoke because it's not good for you.
\ "Wearing yellow T-Shirt, red shorts, thickWhen she spoke, she stuffed her head to the side."I think, 'Well, you tell us not to do what you 've been doing all your life, you're still doing it.She said, "Well, I learned from my mistakes and I tried to help you so that you wouldn't make the same mistake.
"It's really confusing to know what to do, because you know, I'm curious about what it looks like."Jason, Amanda and Martina's parents are facing a problem for all parents today: how to communicate with teenagers on a remote (not too long) basisScope) the danger of some of their actions.Invincible is a part of his personality for a teenager, because smoking, coupled with a banned "label", provides shortThere is no reason for teens not to try to be stimulating, excited and instant gratification.
Long-Because teenagers know nothing about their deaths, the consequences of the term are irrelevant.The problem you face as a parent is to find ways to help your child avoid risky behavior rather than looking for it.The task before you is not easy.Especially in the case of smoking, teenagers are very attractive.
What is the mystery of smoking cigarettes, attracting so many teenagers to try smoking before the age of 15?Parents who seek simple answers to this complex question will only encounter setbacks and disappointment --ment.The reason is not just to break the rules, imitate the movie star's rolemodels, curiosity and the desire to take risks.Smoking experiences include a network of physical, social and psychological factors that can attract and attract adolescents.
Why do people who smoke describe the impact of smoking from taste and flavor and talk about "impact"the split-The second feeling that smoke creates at the back of the throat, like the bubble stimulation of carbon-acid in soft drinks, is predictable and tasting.Cigarettes provide a variety of feelings to satisfy smokers, and the smoking experience involves not only physical effects.The social dimension of smoking complicates and enhances the ritual, and perhaps most importantly, the psychological dimension that affects the self of the smokerimage.
Smoking is a unique experience, and it represents a conflict of confusion.Smokers love cigarettes and hate cigarettes.Cigarettes are both stimulating and relaxing.
The smell of cigarettes is terrible.
Cigarettes make people feel more comfortable on social occasions, but many smokers are socially excluded.If all the effects of smoking are negative, it would be much easier to convince teens not to smoke.However, because the experience of smoking is also gratifying, the obstacles are even more serious.
Teenagers think smoking is a kind of self.They feel they have the right to enjoy it.It is a convincing fact that many people like to smoke.
In marketing research, smokers list some of the reasons why they smoke: o this is relaxing.I like the taste here.It has a calming effect.O this is part of the routine I'm used.O it gave me something to do with my hands.It makes drinking more enjoyable.O it adds to my enjoyment of a meal.It lowered my weight.O it helps me feel relaxed with people I don't know.
It kept me awake.
Social psychologists and health researchers have determined that there are more reasons for teenagers: this is against the rules.My friend did it.It makes me look old.It's a cool thing.Judith Rich Harris, author of the day after tomorrow hypothesis, argues that "this is because adults do not approve of smoking --Because it has something dangerous and disgraceful.Teenagers want to do it."The experience of smoking is multifaceted and unique to every smoker.
Although people who have just started smoking usually have a negative reaction to the taste and impact of their first cigarette, smokers often have a desire for a broad sensory response to cigarettes.For example, smokers look at and want a degree of "irritation" during smoking, and there is almost a slight pain in the throat, mouth or chest.Without irritation, the cigarette tastes bland or "nonsense" and feels like inhaling hot air.
When smoke enters the mouth, it triggers the tasteThe smell of smoke is good or the smell of smoke is bad. the taste of mint is good or not.Smokers enjoy the right smoke feel in their mouths to enhance the smoking experience.If too little, they complain that cigarettes are too hard to smoke, or that they are too gentle or gentle.
If there's too much smoke, they say it's harsh, intense, or irritating.The smoker describes the "body" of the smoke, that is, the weight of the smoke in the mouth.More body means more substance, richer and fuller, just like the difference between a milkshake and a glass of milk.
Smokers worry about "smooth "--The amount of tobacco flavor, there is no feeling of discord.For peppermint cigarettes, they expect a "cooling effect"A fresh taste, like the feeling of sucking air after eating mint sugar, has a tingling feeling in your mouth.Another important part of smoking is the expectation.
Smokers expect satisfaction, calm and excitement.Smokers like to watch the smoke spin in the air.It's a kind of relaxation to see the outgoing smoke dissipate into a soft wisps.
The deep breath associated with smoking itself is a calm experience and stress relief.Smokers like the feeling of packing in their hands, the sound of the glass paper outer packaging, and the fragrance of tobacco and spices when opening the packaging.They like to feel the texture of the cigarette paper on their hands and lips.
They like to flick the Ashes and somehow take the cigarette stub out as an expression of the smoking style: break one end of the ignition and fold the cigarette over the end of the stub, roll the burning tip out of the end, or turn off the lit end part to make the cigarette in the ashtray touch a bit.Smoking weight loss researchers in Boston recently confirmed that the desire to lose weight is another important reason why some children smoke.According to The Associated Press, Dr.Alison field of Harvard Medical School pointed out that "girls who are not satisfied with their appearance are twice as likely to use tobacco as considering tobacco use, "Those who are doing weight loss are more likely to smoke than those who are not doing it:" weight is a sensitive topic for teens.
The researchers in the study only asked some indirect questions about weight and smoking because they did not want to suggest to children that smoking could help them lose weight.Dr.Michael jerlinek, director of child psychiatry at the Massachusetts General Hospital, pointed out that "the social stereotype of being very thin" is the motivation for teenagers to lose weight at the risk of health.Hollywood can't help.The recent character magazine cover story challenges the wisdom of supermodels, actors, dancers and stars who starve themselves to adapt to the latest trends in thin bodies, risking infertility and osteoporosisDigital clothing size.
For teenagers who are highly vulnerable to role models, the notion of taking health risks and looking thin seems entirely acceptable.In contrast to these attributes of smoking is the horrible list of smokers who don't like cigarettes.But all negative effects can be overcome, rationalized or delayed for smokers.
The social, physical and psychological aspects of smoking form a strong combination.So this negative listThe main logical source of anti-smoking advocates --There are very few opportunities to discourage determined smokers: Smoking increases the risk of my illness.Cigarettes are expensive.I rely too much on cigarettes.The Ashes are messy.I burn my clothes sometimes with ashes.O there is a bad smell in my clothes, room or car.
They tickled my throat.
They were filled with smoke in the air.
They left stains on my teeth and fingers.
They brought me a bad breath.
O I can easily catch my breath when I smoke.They left an unpleasant aftertaste.They annoy other people.For teenagers who are passionate about making their own decisions, the standard arguments are even less effective.Why is the old solution not working? Sit on the wall short fat;Short fat and fat fell very badly;I can't put the short fat together anymore.
So the king said, "then I want more horses, more people!\ "This parody of the wellIt's fun and ironic to know the short fat nursery rhymes.When the King used all his resources to put the dwarf together, he failed.His failure stems from the fact that dwarf is an egg that cannot be regrouped through the power of horses and men.
The joke is interesting because it is so obvious that more error solutions will not solve the problem.This is sad because it is the way we often express ourselves.When we face the problems of teenagers, we naturally use logic.
We apply more logic when this does not work.Like Jason's mother and many parents like her, who continues to instill the dangers of smoking in children.This is a symptom of the natural knee.Most people show jerk reactions when faced with teen smoking problems.
They told the children that cigarettes can cause lung cancer, heart disease, swelling and other diseases, killing more than 400,000 people every year.They showed photos of people infected with these diseases.They showed pictures of the diseased organs.
They described it.
Consequences of the term.
Parents have been using "if I told you once, I 've told you countless times for decades...\ "But if the child has heard numerous warnings/threats and has not noticed them, why say it again?This behavior (repeating warnings that have never worked before) is especially ineffective for teenagers who challenge adult authority and wisdom at any opportunity.In this regard, the callTerm thinking is doomed to fail, especially in a generation growing up in a world that is accessed instantly via mobile phones, pagers, e-commerceMail and fax.
If a teenager can't taste it, feel it, put it on, or drive now --They can't relate to it.They never waited for anything.Impact this fastRhythm and sensesThe reasons for avoiding risk must be relevant, influential and immediate.If the approach that emphasizes the health risks of smoking and the dangers of other types of dangerous behavior has not yet worked for adolescents, then more of this approach is unlikely to be helpful.
So what will?This is what you will learn in the book in the future.First of all, it is important to understand that smoking does not happen in isolation.Teenagers are restricted in many aspects of their lives.
If your teen is smoking, it may just be one of some dangerous behaviors.To better guide your teens, you can start by understanding the strong desire of this generation to take risks.High risk lifeToday's teenagers are accompanied by a new cultural norm.
Rating movies, using clear language in rap music, a lot of money, and basically getting all kinds of indulgence for free.The world they see is a world where adults already live on the edge.While our own parents may pursue traditional pastimes such as baseball, reading, Steamboat, gardening or golf, our peers, as parents, are already challenging the limits of life.
We see millions of American adults who are passionate about sports and who are dubbed "extreme sports" so exciting, dangerous and excitingSnowboarding, mountain biking, iceClimb, paraglider, skate board and jump off the cliff flush with a small single slide.Unprotected sex is raging, and heroin is becoming popular in fashion as a drug.Intraday trading of stocks has replaced long-term tradingConservative investment.
Venture capital and high-tech companies dominate new trends in employment for business school graduates.If adults are taking this risk, what's left for children who want to resist to build independence?There are, of course, additional risks.In order to build a path of their own, these teenagers feel that the solution is not just to break through the limits on one front, but it seems interesting on any Friday night or Tuesday afternoon.
As a result, this generation-Your Youth Companion GroupA new paradigm is being defined to interact with parents and teachers, to see the family as a place to refuel, and to see the school as an obstacle course to the risk of drinking, smoking, drugs, violence and sex.As these teenagers are freed from the control of their parents and establish independence, they are engaged in a dangerous act of a new order of magnitude.For this generation, minor offence is not enough to shock their parents.
When they smoke, drink, stab and tattoo their bodies and try drugs, they show amazing sophistication, independence and boldness.If they want something, they can find it online.They are weaned in MTV and extreme sports and they like to take risks.
Even if teenagers may not pierce body parts or get in contact with drugs, they are not afraid to try to smoke, and most people are relatively open to it, despite parental disagreement.To protect your teenagers from smoking and other dangerous behaviors, you must first understand that today's savvy, adventurous, bold and invincible modern teenagers have put new titles and new identities on their generation: the risks of a generation.If you really don't want your teen to smoke, all you need to do is not just disagree.
You can't let the school protect your teenagers.You have to get involved in person and you have to know what you're talking about.You have to understand why teenagers take risks and why they choose smoking as a sign of resistance.
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